Hello again
I have just found out that the roommate is up watching TV until late, very late. Every night. So I will be having a word with the manager on Monday. Actually I am just going to write to the PCQO, the complaint department for Fraser Health . This is completely unacceptable. This is not healthy for mom. Mom needs sleep.
Also we have zero privacy. The women is in the room most of the day, blasting her TV. And then she goes for dinner and then right back at it. Mom has not even finished eating and there she is. The first thing she does is turn the TV on and it is extremely loud. I have to turn mom's TV up just to hear it.
It is also very apparent that this women doesn't have any respect for my mother either. If she did, she would not be watching TV that late when she knows mom goes to sleep at 8 pm. As many others do on her floor. And I have over heard her complain about me being there all the time.
This women should of been vetted before she even moved into the place. She is after all on a waiting list. And the social worker would or should of found out everything about this women before being placed with mom. BULLSHIT. BULLSHIT. I have been lied to about this. Oh no we turn the TV off at 10 pm and take the remote control away. BULLSHIT. Another lie to add to the list.
So yea I am filing a complaint this weekend. Yes I am upset, okay extremely pissed off that they would even do this to begin with. This shows the lack of respect they have for my mother. She can't speak so we can do what the fuck we want and she won't complain.
Yes but I will and I will be speaking very LOUDLY!
They just haven't got it yet. Do not screw with my mother. And if anyone has a problem with this, to bad. I am sure anyone would do the same as me. Okay I really don't think this. considering most people don't even go to see their parent. And I am not just speaking about my mother's daughters. Remember I am there every single day, so I know who comes and who doesn't .
People even say to me, how can you do that, go every day. IT IS MY MOTHER, THE ONLY ONE I HAVE AND SHE SACRIFICED ALLOT FOR ME, MY TURN.
I have already, while writing this, printed out a form that is needed to file the complaint. Multi tasking. I just need to write a letter to attach to it. And then scan the consent form and mail both to the complaint office. Easy breezy. I have no idea where that saying came from, but it has been in my head for days now. Time I used it.
Friday, so it is fish day and a day to wash and style mom's hair. And it is very important for mom to have her hair washed and styled. It relaxes her, keeps her in a good mood. Mom looks forward to this. She knows what days we can do this.
So afterwards it was the usual spa treatment. But this time I sang like a crazy hummingbird. Yea some of you may think this is the ranting of a crazy person. Take care of your loved one and see if you don't do the same thing.
I am the nicest
I person you could meet, but when it comes to looking after my mother's interests, I will do whatever it takes to make sure mom is looked after properly.
There is not much else left to say. Except that I am bringing these new sheets for mom tomorrow and WOW! are they ever soft and luxurious. I know mom will just love the feel of them.
I need to go, I have to eat something and relax before I try to sleep
Please pray for mom and I
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
