Hello again
Mom had her hair done today and it looked good. Not to much hair spray. They of course did not dress mom appropriately for this time of the year. I had to put a blanket on her. They had a short sleeve shirt on her.
I have complained about this action, but to no avail. As it is with everything. This is abuse, no question about it. I am layered completely up. Because I am cold. And if I am cold what do you think a women in her 80`s feels.
And the meeting I had with the manager and director was a waste of my time. Nothing came from it. The promises that were made concerning fixing mom`s nightgowns have gone out the window.
These care aid need to be taught a lesson. And is about time someone does this. Or they will continue to believe that they can get away with murder. Literally. They could kill someone and they will continue to work. Nothing will happen to them. The management will tell you that there is a procedure and sorry you don`t get to know the outcome or the persons name that is being investigated. They will drag it out for so long that they think one will just give up .
So these Fucking care aids can get away with murder.
I know some of these care aids have read or are reading this Blog. To bad. Do you job. It is not you who tells a family member what is what. It is the family member who tells you how they want their loved one`s looked after and you do as they say.
Other than my daily bitch and they are now going to get worse. I will not be spelling out my plans on this Blog, until after they have been completed.
Well mom ate a good dinner this evening. I should know, I made it. When it was finished she was full.
And I put her into bed, I did not want mom to have to wait for an hour to get put into bed. So I did it and mom was happy. And by the time the care aid did come in, we were finished the complete spa treatment. And still had to wait.
But I just held her hand and it was Okay with her. finally the care aid did come in at 7:30. An hour after she should of been there. I ended up staying latter, as I need to make sure mom is completely relaxed before I leave and has had enough to drink as well. Then I need to pack up everything. This alone takes a good ten minutes or so.
This week I am taking down the Christmas decorations and tree. Remember I have to pack this on the bus, so it takes a few days to do this. Actually a week. I won`t be able to bring her tree back until the weekend.
I am packing up everything here,where I live. I am getting rid of things and now I need to bring more things back here. Not just the tree, but clothing as well. Before things go missing.
Anyways, tonight mom sang our good night song with me. As she has done in the past. I just love it when she does this. And it is a huge smile afterwards. Nothing beats these moments. Nothing at all.
I just need to be out their. Good luck with this. I have only been trying for two years now. Again, I can only afford so much. And that is that.
I didn`t think I had anything to say this evening. I wasn`t even going to write on here tonight. I am glad I did.
I was going to ask you to pray again. But that to seems to be a waste of time. I did not mean that if you do pray for me, that I feel that is a waste of time. What I mean`t is, even if some are or have prayed for me, it seems that nothing is happening, so it is a waste of time for all concerned.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris Schmuland
