Hello again
I was very busy on the phone today. More so than usual. All to do with my mother. And making sure she gets the best care and the right things for her. Clothing I am speaking about.
I have been mom's personal shopper for a decade and it is part of my existence. Part of what I do. I enjoy doing it as well.
The OT where mom is has been at me to get mom adaptive clothing. Well it is very expensive and just ugly.
She wanted me to look through the catalog. I did and there is nothing that mom would wear, or has ever worn.
I have had nothing but problems with this women. She thinks she makes the decisions when it comes to my mother and she speaks in a condescending manner to me. " I'm busy, I don't have time to deal with this." Make the time. You are not getting anything for my mother without my permission. Period.
Well mom tonight was tired. She just wanted to hold my hand, and when she is like this, mom will have her eye's closed while I feed her dinner. This was the case tonight.
It being Wednesday, it is her day to have her hair washed by me. Which is what we did right after dinner.
And then the spa treatment. Mom barely wanted this done. Mom was trying to push my hands away while I washed her face. I just did her face and legs and feet tonight. And stayed until 8 again holding her hand while she slept.
When mom's grip loosens, I know she is fully asleep. This is when I left
I was up very late last night and did not get much sleep, so I am signing off for now.
GOD bless and good night.
Still trying to raise funds for the cushion The ROHO cushion
Please pray for me, to receive GOD's help and direction.
Oh I need to move. The landlord is renting it out to his relatives. So September 1 is my deadline.
Kris Schmuland
