Hello again
I will start by including the notes I have been taking each evening when mom and I wait.
Friday Oct 18/13
Ready 5:50 PM
To bed 6:23 Pm
Mom is trying to sit up, so she can get herself to bed. She is looking at me, why can't you put me to dbed. Uncomfortable, complaining, wanting out of the chair.
Saturday Oct 19/13
Ready 6:00 PM
To bed 6:26 PM
Tonight mom has filthy diapers, now again she has to wait and sit in this mess. Wanting nothing more that to be in bed.
Sunday Oct 20/13
Bath day, so she was in bed when I arrived
Monday Oct 21/13
Ready 6:05 PM
To bed 6:34 PM
Mom is very tired and wanting her to be in bed. she doesn't want to sit in her chair anymore. Mm is becoming increasingly agitated. It started when they informed me that I am not able to put mom to bed. Did not even start mom's spa treatment until 7:00 PM
Tuesday Oct 22/13
Ready 6:05 PM
To bed 6:35 PM
Mom's diapers are full and have been since before dinner. Mom is pointing to her bed and reading to her is not good enough this evening. She just wants to be in bed. Uncomfortable.
So this is what I have been doing nightly. And will write it down each night. I need to keep a record.
I can't even have groceries in my fridge. The roommate just keeps on taking them. I can't have groceries to make mom dinner, even. Without fear he will just take it while I am asleep. They only way to monitor this is to stay awake until he leaves in the early morning. I can't even eat. I can't afford to eat out and can't put groceries in the fridge. The landlord is suppose to be bringing me a fridge for my room. But it is now Wednesday and nothing.
I can't afford to keep buying mom dinners. And they are not even as healthy as what I make her. So I don't know what to do. I want to take revenge on him. But that is not for me to do. It is GOD who takes revenge. But I am being impatient.
Besides this mom is OK. Healthy. I am not mentioning this to mom as I don't want to upset her. Yet she knows something is up. I have not brought her a home cooked meal in a few weeks.
This is when I need someone to help out.
I want to say this before I go.
I only have one Mother.
I need to do whatever it takes to make her happy and keep her healthy.
No job, or any amount of money is more important than taking care of mom. Yes more money will help me take better care of her. But I am busy traveling to and from White Rock.
I have only one chance at this, there is no do overs when it comes to making mom feel loved and important. And this is why I don't give a crap what other's think or say about me or to me.
So I need to do a few more things on line before bed.
GOD bless and good night
Please pray that I find a place ASAP, I can't live like this anymore. All I want to do is kick down his door and make him pay. But I will refrain from doing this.
Kris Schmuland
