Hello again
I haven't written in the last few days as I was going to write a scathing blog about my sisters. And the idiot of a family member who keeps writing me. And has yet to realize that the comments come to my email first. At this point I simply delete them. I have no time for individuals who don't know anything.. And I have his IP address.
First of all there are women who come to see my mother, from this church in White Rock, more often than any member of the family does.
This so called family does not know anything about my mother. How she feels, what she thinks. How she thinks. How to tell if mom is happy or sad What she wants. Or even how to read her facial expressions, hand gestures. Body language. Or even how mom communicates with one.
Yet I know all of the above. Oh wait, how do I know all of this. Maybe it is the fact that I spend time with her. To the point where the staff think we have our own language.
I just speak to my mother as I would speak to you or any other individual. Mom understands what I say and I understand what she says.
Again, I spend time with her. Once again, every single day of the week. Some or many people do not think I am serious when I say this. Really, I don't have to prove anything to anyone. Just ask anyone at Al Hogg. They don't even believe it. Even though I am always their.
People don't seem to believe that someone could and would do what I do for my mother. I cannot see it any other way. This is what I need to do for my mother. To be there for her as much as possible.
Anyways, Mom has been eating well. The fruit that mom waits for each year is back. And she has just been eating it up. It is just great tasting.
I plan on making a smoothie out of them.
I have been buying batteries from the dollar store and they are junk. I have gone through a package of 6 in less than two weeks. I need AAA for my wireless keyboard. I am swapping them out to continue to write this blog tonight. A little annoying. But I will continue anyways.
Tonight was another day to wash mom's hair and of course she loved it. Whatever it takes to make mom feel good about herself. She is so limited, as the home does nothing for the residents. And my family does nothing for mom, their mother, grand mother and great grandmother. The only members of the family that actually see's mom, are my sisters. Not that often. So the rest of them can, well, you know where I was going with that. I am thank full that they go at all.
None of the other members of this family should have anything to say to me, about how I look after my mother and what I need to do to keep her happy.
If they took the time to even care. I would take what they say under consideration. But I don't. I am the one that is there and I am the one who will continue to be their for my mother. Regardless of what anyone says.
Well I guess I did spend my time tonight writing about them, after all.
No where near what I was going to write.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
