Hello again
So today I brought mom one of the items I have pre made. The orange marinated, Italian/Parmesan crusty chicken breast. I looked at it and thought there has to be something else I can do to it. So I covered it in mild salsa, and added some provolone cheese, and then put more salsa on it.
I warmed it up when I arrived and served it with and avocado. Well, mom just loved it. She ate the whole thing. It was a large breast. And the whole avocado. Plus a papaya and a pack of three of her favorite Lindt Chocolate and the Nanimo bar. Plus tea, coke, fuze and water.
It was good that she ate so much today. As she hasn't been eating all that well.
I brought her 7 undershirts, as it is fall/winter and it does get cold at night. So I purchased these undershirts for mom to wear.
I have found her a micro stereo system. This way I can download her music onto a flash drive for her to listen to when I am not their.
After dinner I got her change for bed. She wasn't wearing a shirt under her sweater so I put a T-Shirt on her before I put on her night gown. Got her into bed and the nightly spa treatment. Mom was very tired and did not want to have her lower legs and feet washed tonight. So I just put lotion on them for her.
I sang to her, our good night song, held her hand while she fell asleep.Then off I went. It was just pouring rain out tonight.
Fall is here now. Raincouver, as we call it here. Rain until April. It is OK, I am a duck. Born and raised here. an umbrella, what's that.
When I arrived their tonight, the manager spoke with me about moving mom to anther room. They are trying. This is a good thing. I thanked her.
I got home to find a note on my door from the land lady. Asking me to leave my door open, so they can change the door.
The answer will be no. I will leave a note for her. Or give her a call.
I don't want her even in this house when no one is home. Let alone in my room.
She has obsessive compulsive disorder. And has to have things exactly her way. Clean to her standards. No one can live up to it. She keeps throwing things away. Even though I tell her to leave things alone and not throw anything out. After all it is not her things she is throwing out.
I like things clean, the kitchen, bathroom and living room. But I am in my bedroom all the time. I eat in their, watch TV in their. So it is not exactly clean to her standards. And she will start to clean and throw things out.
Anyway I don't want her in my room. Or anyone in my room, when I am not here. Or anytime, for that fact. She can leave the door and the lock. I will just change it myself. Other wise it is not going to happen, and if she does go in their, after I told her not too. I will just call the police and have her charged with breaking and enter.
She does not get things. She is not even suppose to come over without notice. She knows this, but doesn't care. OK there is some work to do, and I have to give a little. So I will, but no one is going into my room without my permission.
Well, mom's photo's have still not been release. Thanks to my sisters, so I guess. I bought a new printer with a GST/HST cheque I received. I got a very good deal on it. This is to, restore the photo's to their original condition. After being water damaged, from being left in a leaking shed.
I have the program to do this and am looking forward to it. It has been a while since I have used Photoshop. I have missed it. I was pretty good at it.
The PGT will release them to me, if my sister's agree to it. And again, I plan on making copies of them for my sisters, plus putting them onto a DVD. Then return the photo's to the PGT. I just want to make mom's room full of memories.
You know, everyone tells me I am doing enough. But I need to do more. And because of this crazy land lady, I really need to move. But that is not why I need to move. It is one of the reasons. But I need to move to White Rock, to be closer to mom and do more for her. Get their for her lunch and be able to take her places. And be able to eliminate the 6 hours of traveling I do. Don't get me wrong. I will continue to do this, without reservations. But to free up this time, is a benefit to mom. I can get to bed earlier and be able to get up and get more things done for her. As well as take care of the problems I have.
The eating disorder I have developed. Or the medical reason behind it. I cannot eat anything made with flour, or any dairy products
Enough though, I need to go to bed and watch a few of the shows I downloaded.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland