Hello again
I want to start by saying that the adventure of the family was a nightmare.
They came wanting a confrontation and that is what they created.
When I arrived mom was dead tired. Her eye's were beet red, she was rubbing them. I could see she just wanted to go to bed, right then and there.
During dinner, mom only had a few bites of her meal. She did not even want to eat her dinner. It looked not to bad tonight. chicken breast with BBQ sauce on it. Squash, and mashed potatoes. OK she has way to may mashed potatoes. Needs something different.
I had some fruit for her. A few gold kiwi's and a papaya. She loves papaya and will eat this every single day. She only ate the gold kiwi. I did make a frozen drink for her. A black cherry and strawberry smoothie. This she ate some of. And I got her an ice cream. But not much of it.
Well when she wouldn't eat anymore, I told her we were going down stairs to the dance recital. She said no, I kept saying we need to go and Marilyn was going to be their with her grandchildren. She still said no.
But down we went. As soon as I got down stairs. This women tried to take mom away. She took mom's glasses off of her. I got these glasses for mom, as the lights in the home bother mom's eye's. This was why she wants them on. I simply said no mom has to be at the back and needs her glasses on.
When we moved to a place for mom to watch the show. This women tried to take mom and move her up close. I simply said that mom needs to be at the back in case she wants to leave and go to bed.
Well my sister came rushing over and said to me that I was saying some bad things to mom's great grand daughter. I simply said to just walk away. Not wanting a confrontation.
When the show started, mom had no interest in it. I tried to get her to watch the show. She only was motioning for me to put her to bed and give her the daily spa treatment. We stayed a half hour. And mom started to get agitated. And raising her voice and just wanting to go to bed. So I started to take her to the elevator and my nephew put his foot in front of my mother's wheelchair and started to push her around then he told me that he was going to beat the shit out of me with my stick, cane,
He did not even take my mother's feelings into consideration. He yelled that mom is going to stay until his wife dances. My sister was their as well yelling at me. And they both were causing a disturbance, yelling at me. My nephew pushing my mother's wheel chair around. Hovering over my mother threatening me.. Scaring mom. He assaulted her by pushing her wheelchair around like that. Mom was frightened by this.
In front of everyone. All I kept saying was mom wants to go to bed. She is getting agitated.
They weren't their to see mom before dinner. How tired she was. They didn't see that mom did not even eat. They are not aware that the roommate is keeping mom up at night.
How mom is not eating properly the last few weeks. They aren't their. They are not their when mom gets agitated and swings and punches, not only me, but the staff as well.
They are not their for any holiday. I am. They are not even their for mom's birthday. They come a few days before and that is it.
I give up everything for mom. I am their everyday. Day in and day out. I am their for 3 or more hours each day. I am the one who holds mom's hand while she fall's asleep. Not them.
My nephew assulted his own grand mother tonight. My sister and nephew were frightening mom. By hovering over her in a imposing manner.
My nephew even took a swing at me. If it were not for my sister, he would of hit me. And they kept saying " he is not worth it" This I give her credit for. But he is exactly like his dad. The only thing they think of is fighting and themsleves. I thought for a minute I was talking to his dad.
But nothing was said about mom and the fact she was completly tired and only wanted to go to bed. Before I even brought her down.
All they were concerened about was themselves
So that was the night.
Now the PGT is still refusing to release funds for me to get mom her snacks, drinks and a decent meal a few times a week.
I have nothing and it's been many days since I have eaten, but I don't care. I am only concerned that mom gets proper nutrition and decent meals. And the PGT is refusing to do anything about this.
Mom is getting weak and is loosing weight. I try and try to get her to eat. Even if it just fruit. But tonight mom did not even want this.
So I say to my family GOD bless them
But I need to go and now write the PGT about this situation
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
