Hello again
I want to first start by letting you all know that mom has a new roommate as of today. And this is not going to work out. Problems already and the women just moved into the room.
Now mom actually whispered to me tonight. And mom has never, every, whispered anything to me. Problem 1.
They have an issue with me being a male. Having to go to her side of the room to get the lift to put mom to bed. Which I brought up before the roommate moved in. The other day to be exact. I new in my soul that this would be a problem for them.
Now for the roommate. She is an aggressive individual, who wants her own way all the time. She has two daughters. The eldest is like mom. Aggressive in nature. The dominant of the two siblings. Putting on an Arie of sophistication, which is actually masking her class in society. She tries to dress in a way the states her wanting to be of a different class in society The younger of the two is the passive one. With all the tell tale signs that the oldest of the two pushed her around growing up.She dresses down, showing her insecurities and her lack of confidence in herself
This is just my opinion and my opinion only.
Now mom did not want me to even leave tonight. She has already expressed displeasure with this arrangement.
Something has to be done and not in a week or two, but now. I will not allow mom to be verbally abuse by someone. It is stress I already see in mom's eyes. This stress will have a negative impact on moms health.
The women likes to read before she goes to bed, and mom wants darkness to sleep. As we all do. This is going to be an issue. I get mom ready for bed right after dinner and by 7 to 7:30 pm mom is ready to sleep. And she gets upset if it is any latter than this. And this is pushing it. So mom needs darkness to sleep. I can't expect the other women to bend to moms preferences either.
Yes there is an adjustment period, but this should of been seen before she even moved into the room with mom. This is not a good match. It seems that there was no taking into account the individuals and their personalities. The reason the women moved from Queens park, her likes and dislikes, her habits etc..... and matching them up with moms personality.
They again, think mom is not aware of what is going on around her. It is extremely evident, from tonight, that mom knows and hears what is going on. And she expressed to me what she heard this evening.
I can't make any of this up.
A space became available and no consideration for mom was taken into account. The women was just put into the room because there was an empty bed.
Now today, I was going to bring mom a burger. But I was walking to the bus, which I take at 3:25 pm, 4 or 5 days a week. With the same bus driver. She knows me and knows I walk with a cane and can't run. I had to get off of the skytrain a stop before King George station, to go to T&T grocery store to get mom a Papaya and some other things. I new the time. I walked over to King George station and was 30 feet from the bus. I saw her close the door. I started waiving and yelling. Thinking she would wait the minute it would take me to get their.
Now I missed this bus and had to wait for a half an hour for the next one. This means it is an hour on the other end that I was behind. So I got to White Rock at 4:50 and had no time to do anything, except hustle my butt down to the home.
Tomorrow I will be bringing her a hamburger, from Fatburger. They are suppose to have great burgers. And I have a two for one coupon.
Now I could be completely wrong about this women and her children, but I am usually not wrong about reading people. But if I am, I do apologize in advance. Yet I will be calling the social worker in the morning about my concerns
So it is late and I need to do a few more things online before I go to bed and watch some TV
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
