Hello again
Let me start by saying this.
My education was in Applied Behavioral Analysis. Cognitive Psychology. With an emphasis on research methodology. To understand alternative treatments for Alzheimer's and Dementia. I have not taken, but a few courses in counselling studies. Not what I am interested. Do not want to counsel people.
Now Abby, do you spend 7 hours a day traveling to see your loved one. Actually, I don't even think you have it in you, to do what I do everyday and have been doing for 7 years. To make sure someone is their to see that my mother is loved. By at least one of her children. To be their to understand and listen to her. As the staff don't even take the time to do this. Or I think it is they don't give a crap what any of the patients think or care about/.. Just my opinion, nothing more.
To give of yourself, beyond what is considered reasonable. To just go without even thinking about it.
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Getting their to see my mother, whether I feel like going or not. Mom is stuck in the care of individuals who do not even pay attention to see if their is something wrong, physically with my mother.
Yes I have problems, who doesn't. I am sure, Abby, you have lots of them, just by the way you write. But I leave my problems at the door. And never, never bring them into my visits with my mother.
I will and have given the shirt of my back. I will spend my last dollar of my mother. You say what happened to the comfort funds. Besides buying clothing for my mother and the staff giving them to my sister to take home. And leaving mom with old crap to wear.
Even though I have mentioned never to give them anything. But oh no, The clothing, never to return again. The jewelry as well.
So what to do about this. I think it is time to go to the RCMP and file a complaint. And you tell me that I expect mom to go to the bathroom right away.
I never say anything, I want my mother to be taken to the washroom right now, if I do, you people will lie and say I made threats against you. As you have already have done. I am getting a copy of that report and will do what is needed to do with it.
I cook my mother dinners, cakes, pies and bread. I bring her fresh fruit daily and the drinks she loves.
Now I am never going to justify my actions again. I don't need too. Who are you anyways, Abby.
Be careful how and what you write.
Remember I have all the documentation I need.
I need to leave you now. I need to get to bed.
GOD bless and good night
Kris
