Hello again
So tonight I had a choice tonight. Either let them take mom to the washroom right after dinner and then put her to bed. Which means I won't be able to give mom the complete spa treatment. Or wait and give mom the spa treatment and then. Well I made the wrong choice.
Mom waited 1 1/2 hours after the staff asked if she was ready. So then mom really had to go to the washroom when the staff asked if she was ready. Instead I said, I have not even given her the spa treatment yet. After. Wrong decision. Mom got extremely upset at me, for not letting her go to the washroom right then and there.
I should know that take it while it is offered, especially with this staff. As seen by the example of tonight. This is not the first time mom has waited this long. Many times.
I really did not get to finish her spa treatment. And I arrived home an hour latter than usual.
While on the way home I was reading this article and it tells of how I believe life should be like.
Posted by Felicia Weiss, Ph.D. on Friday, March 16, 2012
You can really know about a person by how they treat others in their time of need. Do they push and shove? Are they absent and unavailable? Or do they hold out a helping hand and offer support until that person is able to stand on their own again?
I hope you will also be the kind of person, who is there for your loved ones and those in need. There is no greater gift that one can give than to be someone who can be counted upon.
Love & Light,
Felicia Weiss
I am just sharing an interesting article with you all.
I thank y'all for reading me. I do wish that this blog would go viral. So maybe I could get some help.
What I need is dinners for mom. That would be great if people I use to know, would help out with dinners that I could divide up and freeze for future use. This would be a great help.
For me, my stomach is so ruined that I can't eat anything anymore. And I just don't have an appetite.
I ran into someone I have not seen in awhile. He asked me how I lost the weight. I asked him if he wanted the truth or a lie. Well, the truth is what he wanted.
I told him it was because of a starvation diet. I would rather mom get good meals and proper nutrition. Fruit and enjoyable meals.That have taste. Not so bland as the hospital food is. This is why I am the way I am, now. Mom is first and I am last. Literally. I will starve before I let mom go without a good meal. Or fresh fruit and the things she likes.
After all I have sisters who keep taking mom's belongings. I don't know if it is the staff telling her to take them, or it is just her. I do, however, think it is the staff telling her to take them.
Now I took a pause in this writing tonight, so I could have my dinner. Popcorn. This has been my dinner for the last week.
What really bothers me the most. Is I cannot provide mom with anymore decent meals. Tonight, I kept apologizing to her for not being able to give her a good meal tonight. And the one night I can't give her a good meal. Well a few nights now. She gets a cabbage roll. Which she doesn't like, at all. As she has had this many times and refuses to eat it. It looks horrible as well. Nothing on it at all. Plain, plain and plain.
It is now 1:55 am and it is time to go.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris
I really wish things would work out. I can't have mom end up like dad. With no one around her.
Oh yea the staff made it obvious today that they don't like me and are doing everything for my sister. As in giving her mom's belongings.
Let us see what the police have to say about this.
