PRIMER CHRISTY CLARK, THE LEADER OF THE PROVINCE BRITISH COLUMBIA, IS ALLOWING THE PUBLIC GUARDIAN AND TRUSTEE OF BC
TO RUIN CHRISTMAS FOR MY MOTHER AND MYSELF. MY MOTHER HAVING DEMENTIA AND LUNG CANCER.
AND CONTINUE TO ABUSE BOTH MY MOTHER AND MYSELF.
Hello again
Well last night I wiped out on the bus, the bus stopped and I went flying forward. Today, I was leaving the drug store and their is a automatic door and I was walking on the other side of the door, toward the window. If it were not for noticing a person walk through the door. Well I stopped about 6 inches from the window. Of course I went that would of hurt. I got a laugh from the person watching me.
So I went to see mom with my aunt. I really don't like to do this as my aunt is completely uncomfortable around mom and can only be their for a very short time. But today mom said to me in plain English " I Love You" this is great.
All my work of just talking to her and knowing and letting mom know she can talk and walk. And just plain listening to her. All the music therapy, sight, sound, touch. taste. Love. All these play an important role in helping one heal. It is not just mom it is helping. It is other patients that it is helping as well. I do not speak to anyone of them like they are children. I speak to them with respect. I listen to them and try to discern what they are saying.
This is treatment. Not drugs. People need to be spoke to with respect. and dignity. And they will respond. This is the treatment I have planed and are using with mom. To use all of her senses to the fullest.
Colours. Bright colours. Tastes, exotic fruits with unique tastes. Music, that has a stimulating effect. Touch. as in the daily massages, hugs, kisses. Words, I love you, I will be here for you. And the most important treatment one can have is human contact. Family, friends, etc....
This is why I am try all the time for mom. What I do is for love and what I do is helping mom. By mom saying to me Hi. And I love you. And a few other things.
So my aunt and I were only their for less than an hour. I promised mom I would be back. And then my aunt and I went for dinner, I dropped her off at home. I got onto the sky train and then jumped the bus and went back to White Rock.
The staff did not want to let me in, but oh well. And then I was told your mom is asleep. Yea I said,I told mom I would be back and here I am. I do not break promises. Especially to mom.
I am an loyal, trustworthy person. People tell me everything. I know so much about so many people it is not funny. All the bus drivers I know, tell me everything about their lives. I mean everything. And I never say anything about it. This is why I chose psychology as a career. It is easy for me to get people to tell me their problems. It does not take much for me to say and people will open up.
Yet it is research I am interested in. Not counselling. I want to find alternative treatment for Alzheimer's and Dementia.
Well I ate tonight, had a dinner. But my stomach is upset and bothering me. I have only been eating oats, with brown sugar for a long time now. And I will be back to this tomorrow. Oh wait, I have none.
The Public Guardian and Trustee of BC, knows mom is moving, they know I am mom's rock. And they know I am the best thing for mom and I go their everyday. I take the 110 km's trip their and the 110 km's trip back with out any problems.
I do talk to people on my journey, but it is the lonelyness and isolation that I feel even though I am communicating with others. I never felt like this before. I have always been somewhat of a loner. I like to do things by myself.
But now I crave company. Someone with whom I can share my struggles with. Share the nonsense that I deal with on a daily bassis' with the PGT and hospital. Not knowing up to date information on the disease. Where I get this information sent to me daily, by email. From John's Hopkins, and the Mayo Clinic, to name a few.
I receive all sorts of information from the FDA about the drugs they use. Theses are few of the things that I read after I get home at night. Oh yea the Bible. Yes I said the Bible. I have never been shy about the fact that I am a Christian. And my belief structure is evident in my blog. How people should not be treated like pets. Locked up and defenceless. Drugged into submission.
I will, with your help, put a stop to this. The abuse, the drugging of our seniors. The warehousing of our seniors. We have to start treating them, and they can still be a valuable part of society.
GOD bless and good night.
Kris
