Hello again
Today mom was better, but still tired. She did eat, very slowly. I also had to encourage her to swallow. I forgot to ask how her eating was today. I will be doing that first thing tomorrow. I will call them.
But today, mom did watch the news and part of another show, before putting the music on and getting her into bed. By this time she was ready for bed.
And it was her full spa treatment tonight. I had not been doing her legs for the last few days. But they get dry. So they needed to have lotion put on them.
After this, I just stayed and held her hand until she was completely asleep. So I just got home not very long ago. 11 pm and turned the computer on and started writing. Now I am getting cold. Weird.
:Let us not forget, the music was playing I was singing to her. She clutched my hand tightly and brought it close to her and held on. This I just love dearly. It brings warmth to my soul.
So I have written that we had a storm and I was without power for 2 and 1/2 days. At the end of this I needed to clean out my fridge. I don't get allot of money each month, so I tend to eat very little. But I had allot of things in the fridge for mom, as well as in the freezer. Throughout the month, if I find something on sale and I have the funds I will get it and freeze it. I make sauce for mom and freeze some, I had 3 kilo's of strawberries in the freezer, 1 kilo of blueberries and a kilo of cherries. Well all turned to mush. I also had 4 containers of sauce, 2 kilo's of ground beef and a kilo of ground chicken in the freezer. All of which needed to be thrown out. I was buying these things over the last few weeks.
Everything was for mom's dinners and smoothies.
When it comes to things for mom, no matter what my situation is, if it is for mom, I don't touch it. Period. Never have and never will.
I make no bones about it, that I receive a certain amount of funds each week to get mom fruit, drinks chocolate and items to make her dinners with. Provided there is extra from each weeks funds. I try to make things last. I buy certain things one week and other items the next week.
So I needed to throw it all out. Gone bad. Especially meat and the fruit.
Since mom's funds are tied up with the PGT, PGT PGT PGT PGT PGT, and they needed replacement, I thought I would contact the case manager. KB for assistance, since hundreds of thousand of people had to throw things out. But I don't have the funds to replace anything. I am on a tight budget.
Well KB in her shameless way has said to me, that I need to use the weekly funds to replace every thing that needed to be thrown out. It is not an emergency KB of the PGT tells me. Not an emergency Where the hell am I suppose to come up with this money. . I don't have it. So now mom has to go without certain things and might have to for awhile. Thanks to the shamelessness of KB of the PGT, She then tells me that Hydro has something on their web site. Which was not true. I knew this before she filled me full of.......
I bet she was out refilling her fridge and freezer. KB of the PGT. That is if she lost power and needed to throw food out. Damn straight she was KB of the PGT
Shame on you. That is shameless of you.
I do what I can and I go without. I will have to go without for awhile now. As I don't have the funds to replace anything of mine. But I am not worried about this. My last day of my fast is tomorrow and I won't be able to eat anything much for many days, until my stomach gets use to food again.
But mom needs these things.
KB of the PGT tells me it is not an emergency. The home provides everything for her. I keep telling her to try and live on what they provide. And they don't provide fruit or smoothies, or chocolate or snacks or the drinks she likes. No that is up to the children to provide. And remember, KB of the PGT tells me to use, what little is provided each week to replace everything all at once. Not helping in anyway at all.
Like she did with a manual that is needed to fight the rank and file of Fraser Health. Not needed she tells me. Or the fact that the staff continue to tear mom's clothing and nothing done about it.
I say instead of continuing to pay a seamstress, I would get a sewing machine and do it myself. Might take longer at first, but I know how to sew. Guess what she has said................
This women KB of the PGT is constantly making threats to me, She, KB is always trying to belittle me. By saying things like, For those of us that work.
I work, I even told her that she doesn't even have the personality to do what I do. Not a chance. could she KB, even do what I do. I know this for a fact. I take care of an ailing mother. This is not easy.... I am there every single day, without fail. And have been for many, many years. More than anyone else.
Now mom needs her items replaced right away but KB doesn't think she needs these things. She doesn't need her daily smoothie, that mom has had for years. Or her daily chocolate that she has had e everyday for years, or the fruit she gets. I can only do so much with so little
This blog will cause KB to make even more threats against me. I know it will, she is that type of person.
The worse part is, that if I write an email to her, she will answer me on Friday, after the office is closed. That is what type of person she is. KB of the PGT,PGT and the PGT
Shame on you,
I am going to go now.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
