Hello again
I awoke this morning thinking that mom was going to be in bed when I get there. What do you know, she was. Apparently mom got sick this morning. So they kept her in bed all day long, having to listen to the roommates TV at extreme volume level. Mom's TV was on and her radio. The radios volume was to low to hear as well as her TV. She can't even see the TV because they don't move the bed for her to see or remove the pad on the bed railing. So as I said she had to listen to the roommates TV, that is turned way up.
This is the problem, the roommate doesn't give a crap. And Al Hogg has effectively stopped me from being able to take any kind of action. By not following the law when it comes to Substitute decision makers. They have my sisters as the people to go to. Even though there is no Commintee of person in place or a Representation Agreement and again, if there is none of these in place it falls on the substitute decision maker.
Now I need to fight for this. It is sexist. Because I am a man.
Now do you think, because mom got sick, they would hydrate her today. Give her something to drink through out the day. NO. This did not happen. And mom was extremely thirsty when I arrived.
So I gave her as much to drink as she wanted.
Now being in bed today, I was not able to wash her hair. Lucky she is been given a bath tomorrow. But the same will be true. Having to listen to the roommates TV. Even if they have mom's TV on.
I gave mom plenty of time to eat dinner this evening. I brought her fish. But this seemed to be hard for her to chew today. So I fed her the served meal. Plus the other items I brought her.
Since she was in bed, I started mom's spa treatment right away. I mean after I rinsed the sheets and everything else that mom got sick on.. I was able to do most of her spa treatment before the care aid came in. So we finished very early.
I wasn't going to leave. Nothing here for me, in Coquitlam. So I stayed and held her hand and sang to her. My voice is a little horse now. It is OK.
The manager did not even speak to me today. So it was a waste of my time speaking with her yesterday. And the other day. Nothing is being done, no appointment is being set. And so on and so forth.
I will now have to speak to someone above the manager. Since I can't file any complaints. The MP or MLA or even Pivot legal services. I will scream sexism, very loud. Other wise why do they still have my sisters names down.
If I can get a lawyer on board, I will file a law suit against any and all of them and Fraser Health.
Time for me to go now. I am getting extremely pissed off.
GOD bless and good night
Please pray or assist us
Kristopher Schmuland
