Hello agian
I sent in the complaint package and I get an email back telling me they need proof of me being a substitute decision maker. We have had this discussion before. I am going by what the law states.
I don't have any proof that I am deemed the substitute decision maker. How it works is I am a temporary substitute decision maker. In other words.
It works like this. Whom ever is there the most and takes care of the person the most is the decision maker, Period.
That is me. I am there and I am the one who cares for my mother. Now I have to explain this all over again to this individual. Piss me off. Ignorance at its best.
Mom was tired again tonight. But happy. She ate well, but took along time to eat her dinner. She does not like this roommate. And wants to move to a place where she can have her own room.
I will look into this. Mom needs her own space. And we need privacy when mom and I are together. Mom needs peace. And to not have a TV blaring in her ears. Night or day.
It all went well with her.Spa treatment. And then she just wanted to go to sleep. Didn't even want the whole treatment. Just her face and arms tonight. Then she held my hand, wanted me to sing and leave. She was relaxed and just pushed my hand away. But drew it back. This is mom telling me she wants to sleep. So I packed my bags and kissed her good night and left. I left early, but got home later than normal.
Which by the way, pissed me off as well.
As you can read I am not in the greatest of moods.
I had a doctors appointment today. It was scheduled for fir a certain time. I arrived early and fell asleep while waiting. Then they called my name, to move to the other waiting room. I waited, and waited. Then I realized I had to leave. Which did. Of course I rescheduled for Friday now. So I go and wait again.
Not impressed.
A few other things have happened in the last 24 hours that have also pissed me off. I will not go into it just yet.
But I am done writing for tonight. I have to chill out. I am to upset. OK I am pissed.
Got to go now.
GOD bless and good night
Kristopher Schmuland
