Hello again
I start this today by saying I really need to move. I have a roommate who has been taking things that I bought to make mom dinners and is to cowardly to even face me. He is hiding. He took a half dozen eggs plus other items. I bought another dozen eggs and got home tonight to find them gone. He knows I can't eat eggs and that they are for my mother. So pay back time.
This is what happens when one lives with an alcoholic. They are losers. I may be broke and on Welfare, but I am doing something worthwhile with my time.
I have not been able to put mom to bed. So mom has to suffer. Tonight she was sitting in her chair trying to get out to get to bed. She was telling me to just put her to bed. But I had to say I couldn't.
This is abuse, mom is suffering. She can't go to bed when she is use being put into bed when she wants to.
The abusive nurse is on this weekend. And mom had to wait over 1/2 hour tonight before someone came to put her into bed. She now has to sit and wait, in her own filthy diapers.
I got in touch with the. It is called the patient care quality review panel. And I am waiting for a case manager to call me back. It is the start of the process. I have started it and will go until the desired result is achieved.
I will, also, on Monday, be going to the MLA in White Rock and making a formal complaint about this.
IT IS ABUSE TO MAKE MOM WAIT LIKE THIS.
Well I have contacted the funeral home where mom's parents are laid to rest and I have an appointment with them next week.
NO, mom is fine, she is healthy. But my sister's want as much as they can get from the inheritance. I hope mom uses it all before she passes. And mom does not want to be cremated. And I want mom to be buried as well and dad's ashes put in the coffin with mom.
Yes this is a very hard thing to do. Arrange, or at least find out how much a funeral is going to cost.
I have seen a very lot of death over the years. Not only someone I know being alive one day and the next day coming in to find out that they passed away overnight but I have also seen many people pass away while I was in the room with them. As in mom's past roommates.
Anyways, I will be speaking with this funeral home. Getting an idea of how much it will cost. Then I am going start a fund raising campaign on Gofundme. I will let you all know when that takes place.
All money raised is going into trust for just this reason. A funeral for mom. And it will be dual signatures that are needed to remove the funds. I will hire a lawyer or someone like this for the other signature. . I have to do something. Mom's religious beliefs state that she be buried and I have to honor this.
This nurse, Joane, likes to give mom her meds early, so by the time dinners rolls around, mom is falling asleep. It only happens when she is working. And this bitch is on, for the next three days.
It is Sherry and this LPN who I am going after.
Mom has rights as a resident of Al Hogg and with this she has rights. And part of those rights is for mom to make a decision on who can provide her with health care. And since mom is not able to do so, it falls on me to make these decisions. As I am the one who is their all the time.
I do all this for mom as I want to be able to make a difference in at least one persons life.
I need to go...
I want to be up when this asshole roommate gets up to take a shower at 3 AM. To confront him. But revenge is mine saith the LORD. So I will pray for him. But I will confront him and will be phoning the landlord again. He has to go.
OK I owed him some money, but I had this in my drawer for the last week. I fixed someone's computer last weekend and did some other things for them. And I was paid for my work. I put his funds aside. I just haven't seen him all week. Then after this I owe him nothing. I have to replace everything he has taken.
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland