Hello again
To start, Revenue Canada sent me a letter informing me that I owe them over $7000.00 in HST/GST payment for a company that I re-started but never got it off the ground again. Mom and dad needed me and I needed to use what money I had to use for them.
I called them and wrote them telling them it was not in operation. But I guess this wasn't good enough. I called them, the other day, mentioned to them that it never got off the ground and then was asked to call another number. Which I did, they had on file that I closed the account. But I now need to fill out 4 years worth of tax returns with zero on it.
So I have been trying to get this campaign off the ground or finding funding. So when I get home at night I have been working on that. And not spending the time on here.
Now mom has a new roommate and she is nosey at night and mom is not getting proper sleep. Which means she is not happy the next day and by the time dinner is there, she is not very hungry and just wants her spa treatment. I get her to eat as much as possible. I give her fruit, cheese and snacks. But she is very tired. And this women is sick.
I mentioned to the staff that mom has her own medical problems, such as lung cancer and doesn't need to be exposed to this. Nothing has been done about it. The women has not been separated from mom. Now if mom gets sick, it is their fault
I have been getting mom outside as much as possible. Today around the block. And then I washed her hair and styled it. She ate as much as she wanted and was very anxious to get to bed. She started to push the plate away and tried to pick up the other one and put it on the tray. She just wanted to go to bed and have the spa treatment done.
I took her, got her changed for bed, put her into bed and brushed her teeth and gave mom her nightly spa treatment. I played her favorite bedtime music. She loves Diana Krall, it helps to relax her. I sang to her and did everything that is done before she goes to bed at night.
It is about an hour and a half to do all this. Every night this happens. Mom loves this and I love doing this for her.
But it is hard when mom tries to feed herself and can't remember how to use the fork. And the worst part is that she knows she has forgotten how to use it.
This breaks my heart and brings me to tears. I wish anyone or someone would walk in my shoes for a few days and actually see what it is I do for mom. My journey to see her and back.
I do need to go now, but I will try to write as much as possible
GOD bless and good night
Kris Schmuland
